Conflict can kill true love over time. So if you want to keep true love alive and let it thrive, you should spend some time learning to reduce conflict. It isnt hard to do.
Understand, first, that some conflict is healthy in a relationship. And it is to be expected. Learning to fight fair and go for win win can help you to argue in a healthy way. Shows like Dr Phil can give lots of advice about this.
However, is there a way to stop most conflict before it ever starts? Would it help you to keep true love alive if you reduced the conflict in your relationship by over 50%?
Well, there is a remarkable way to stop conflict that is not only powerful but fun to do. You can put it to use right now, today, to start making a difference in the true love you feel with your mate on a regular basis.
A great way to cut conflict by over 50% in your relationship is PLAY. Play is the way to kill most conflict before it starts. Research has actually been done on this showing a direct correlation: the more play, the less conflict!
Conflict and play go hand in hand. The more play in your love life, the less conflict. In the beginning you played a lot with your mate. You went to movies, had lots of sex, went dancing. You engaged in all kinds of fun activities. There was lots more play than fighting in the beginning.
But then the honeymoon phase wears off and things change. We have jobs and burdens and kids and the play begins to diminish in our relationship. True love starts to disappear some. And of course conflict starts to grow.
So a powerful thing you can do to reverse this trend and feel more true love again is to simply play more in your love life. You don't need a ton of play. Just a few minutes a day of sexy hugs or gong for a walk around the neighborhood together after dinner can do it. Have at least one date night a week. Add more play into your relationship and see if you start to reduce the conflict and increase the true love.