It is inevitably going to happen to you when you are out looking for women. Trying to initiate a conversation with girls is bound to be one of your goals for the night. Wanting to talk to girls is probably one of your goals of the night. Then, you see the girls you want to approach. They are in a group and one girl stands out in particular to you. You have gotten the guts to talk to the girls. Something doesn't seem right though.

All her friends are very approachable but the girl you were focusing on isn't giving you much action to work with.

Take a step back. Realize that it's not the end of the world and that you are her type. The reason she is acting like this is because you focused your attention to her and in turn boosted her ego.

She got the feeling of importance and now the ball is in her court. She doesn't want to lose the respect her friends see her in so she doesn't respond as some girl who's easy.

She'd rather keep her value with her girlfriends than show her interest in you. What is the solution to this? Change your approach! It is important to note that this tip comes from Tiffany Taylors Guy Gets Girl ebook.

When you show her friends (who have lower social value/worth than your target female) more attention and affection, you challenge her ego. So, in an effort to regain her superiority in the hierarchy of her circle of friends, the girl youre really interested in will subconsciously invest much MORE interest in you by flirting and being playful. Don't be surprised now to see the girl your interested in be interested in you now, as she'll vie for your attention instead of YOU trying to seek her approval.

The fact that you arent showing her any love now she is going to start to wonder whats wrong with her. She is going to try to now get your interest back, which is what you'll gladly take. See how the guy gets the girl with this?

This is a great technique to bring a challenge to a girl. Girls are intrigued by challenges and welcome them. Use the Deflection Technique to bring more success to your dating scene...

Take A Page From Guy Gets Girl Ebook: The Deflection Theory is a post from: Self Improvement Tips