Women these days are smarter and more cautious to go on a date with strangers. Especially because date rape cases have been on the incline. This factor should deter them from a date with yourself.
Let's put some creativity in your mind to get her out on a date with you.
Walking over and ask her out is the simplest approach. However being strangers this way increases the level of difficulty by a great percentage.
Of course chances of a total rejection is much higher going by this way. If she accepts you, congratulations. But if she doesn't, don't take it too personal either.
I know this idea may not be creative enough for you. Read along for more.
When you notice a lady. it's not totally about her looks. Women adore compliments but anything on the looks department probably puts them off as a pick-up line. Instead, compliment the actions and the accessories she carries along.
For instance if you saw her parking well and ask if she could describe the techniques she uses. Ask about the notebook she's using, the performance and it's value for money as if you're really keen on one for yourself but hesitating for some good reasons.
These ways may serve as good starting points leading to a conversation and ending with exchanges of your cell phone numbers to call back soon.
If you have seen her every fortnightly doing her groceries, hanging the laundry or walking her dog she probably isn't a stranger to you. Now that's different from being total strangers even though you do not know her name. Nevertheless you do know quite a bit about her and the things she does.
If you find potential dating any of the strangers you often see, try to observe her bit more closely. Get to know her schedule or places she frequents. Then wait for the appropriate moment so you would stand higher chance of getting to know her.
When you see her at the cafe in the morning, do not ask her out while she's picking up an espresso-to-go. Chances are she's in a real hurry to work or somewhere. Wait for a better chance - say Friday when she normally spends the afternoon lazing around on a coffee. That should be a good opportunity to make conversation when she's not in a hurry.
Approaching her at the Laundromats is really quite a great idea. A conversation may end a completely boring task of waiting for the laundry to complete its cycle. If she's reading a novel, do a mild approach by asking something about the book she's reading. Don't forget your smile.
If you happen to find out that both of you have friends in common, things can never be simpler. Have your common friends to set up a dinner session. That's when you get your chance to make talk with her. After the first round of "His" and "Hellos", I'm pretty sure you know what to do next.
It can be rather exciting thinking of creative ways to ask her out for a date. And when you overcome that challenge, it is really fulfilling. I hope this article benefited you in one way or another.
Enjoy in the meantime!